Success is more than winning, it's about solving problems and resolving difficulties, it's about bouncing back when you get hooked down. It is simply your attitude towards handling failure.
"I strived to extricate myself from tangled webs of failure, you too can if you ditch that resisting habitual act of settling for failure and accepting it as fate. No, you've fallen once, twice or even thrice might make you think you've failed. Well, quite acceptable, you can say so, but it's more than that. It only means you've not succeeded and your effort is required. You might have truly failed somehow, but, I want to reassure you that you're not a failure yet unless you settle to be"-Abisola
In actual sense, what does success really entails? The number of BScs, MScs or Phds you've hung on your wall? The medals, treasures and trophies in your cupboard or wardrobe? All the money you've got in your bank vault? YES! All of these can mean success but it's more than that. Though, success is also not necessarily acquiring fame, wealth or fortune, though, it has been affirmed as an aspect of success. Our perception of success should not exclude money and material needs of life for without these, we cannot thrive in life. Success is when you've solved a problem and this perceived to be solved problem spawns new problem and challenges you to solve them proficiently and you are still able to conquer the problem. Yeah, that's when you've succeeded.
Success is really an unending process, it is a continual process, you've just gotta keep at it. It is discovering, exploring and revealing the inbuilt God given potentials in you. Success just means coping with the unusual recurring problems around you.
Real success for women is when you can confidently stare right into your man's face that "Yes, I made it". It is to be proud to be who you are now, what you've encountered, faced and how you've overcome them. Some people haven't discovered themselves. For more information on that, see my blog adeyeraabisola@blogsolpot.com. Success is to be able to say at least I was able to utilize my 13 trillion brain cells. Additively, success is building your own self, to excel exceedingly at what you do to make people around you proud of you. Success is when you earn respect for yourself.
That you quit a bad habit for a good one is a form of success. Your positive attitude should be able to influence the life of several others and through them, thousands of other lives were also liberated. They got inspired by what you passed down. Later on, a flash of your success will continue to be a source of inspiration and it will make you want to do more. As you go on in life, you'll surely experience stop-overs, it requires discipline and determination to becone successful.
Conclusively, dream success, desire success, eat success, pursue success,b live success, breathe success. Give it all it takes. It doesn't happen accidentally, you plan to make it happen and it takes pain to be successful. Try to be uncomfortable for a while to be comfortable forever. Pay now and play later.
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